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received me swiftly, they evaluated my case quite rapidly and they really supported me a lot. I was actually seeking psychological help and I wanted to go to a therapist and find a solution, see what I could do. I hâd no money for therapy, nor lawyers, not anything, șo it was a very bad situation, he was not bringing his salary home, it was how it is în all dysfunctional families. (...) I didn’ț appeal to public services, because I
(English) ” I was living in a sealed concrete cube, there was no way out” - Interview with a domestic violence survivor (part I) () [Corola-website/Science/296119_a_297448]
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husband: “what on earth does she want”. I called the police for two or three times. I even filed în a complaint. I was there for a whole night one time, the night immediately after the New Years Eve. I hâd run away and I simply hâd nowhere to go, and the police station was really close. The child wasn’ț at home that night. Lately he hâd begun to threaten to kill me, but mostly when the child wasn’ț
(English) ” I was living in a sealed concrete cube, there was no way out” - Interview with a domestic violence survivor (part I) () [Corola-website/Science/296119_a_297448]
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want”. I called the police for two or three times. I even filed în a complaint. I was there for a whole night one time, the night immediately after the New Years Eve. I hâd run away and I simply hâd nowhere to go, and the police station was really close. The child wasn’ț at home that night. Lately he hâd begun to threaten to kill me, but mostly when the child wasn’ț at home, he was probably being
(English) ” I was living in a sealed concrete cube, there was no way out” - Interview with a domestic violence survivor (part I) () [Corola-website/Science/296119_a_297448]
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whole night one time, the night immediately after the New Years Eve. I hâd run away and I simply hâd nowhere to go, and the police station was really close. The child wasn’ț at home that night. Lately he hâd begun to threaten to kill me, but mostly when the child wasn’ț at home, he was probably being careful not to have any witnesses. Once he hâd started to wake me up în the middle of the night and
(English) ” I was living in a sealed concrete cube, there was no way out” - Interview with a domestic violence survivor (part I) () [Corola-website/Science/296119_a_297448]
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really close. The child wasn’ț at home that night. Lately he hâd begun to threaten to kill me, but mostly when the child wasn’ț at home, he was probably being careful not to have any witnesses. Once he hâd started to wake me up în the middle of the night and threaten me, I was really afraid to be by myself with him în the house. When the child wasn’ț at home, I found reasons to leave, too
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leave, too, to go to my mother’s or somewhere else, șo I wouldn’ț be alone with him. Immediately after New Year’s Eve - he hadn’ț spent it at home - he came back în the same manner he hâd left, making a lot of noise and saying he wasn’ț ok with anything. Once he was all over me, twisting my wrists and neck, how could I hâd rang the police, I ran once I was able to. The
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it at home - he came back în the same manner he hâd left, making a lot of noise and saying he wasn’ț ok with anything. Once he was all over me, twisting my wrists and neck, how could I hâd rang the police, I ran once I was able to. The police were not responsive at all, they have no business with domestic violence, they look șo relaxed, maybe only when you die, they come with the ambulance to take
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I went home, my husband didn’ț let me în, șo I went back to the police station and I asked them what to do and they said: “ Well, sit down on this chair, what else can you do?”. (...) I hâd run away with just some clothes on, but I was wearing slippers and I hâd no keys. I wasn’ț afraid to go back, sometimes I was crazy bold, because I was în such a mess... who was to help
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the police station and I asked them what to do and they said: “ Well, sit down on this chair, what else can you do?”. (...) I hâd run away with just some clothes on, but I was wearing slippers and I hâd no keys. I wasn’ț afraid to go back, sometimes I was crazy bold, because I was în such a mess... who was to help me, who was to retrive my keys and my papers? There were times when he
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crazy bold, because I was în such a mess... who was to help me, who was to retrive my keys and my papers? There were times when he didn’ț care and other when he was really violent and I hâd to wait for the right moment to sneak în. The police came, but he didn’ț open the door, but în the end he let me în. În the meantime I hâd been to the ER, get myself checked and
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other when he was really violent and I hâd to wait for the right moment to sneak în. The police came, but he didn’ț open the door, but în the end he let me în. În the meantime I hâd been to the ER, get myself checked and they recommended I should get a forensic certificate. Anyway, I hâd nowhere to sleep and I hâd to solve everything that very night. I hâd spent a whole night at the police
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police came, but he didn’ț open the door, but în the end he let me în. În the meantime I hâd been to the ER, get myself checked and they recommended I should get a forensic certificate. Anyway, I hâd nowhere to sleep and I hâd to solve everything that very night. I hâd spent a whole night at the police station and at the hospital. În the morning he let me în aș if none of it hâd happened
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open the door, but în the end he let me în. În the meantime I hâd been to the ER, get myself checked and they recommended I should get a forensic certificate. Anyway, I hâd nowhere to sleep and I hâd to solve everything that very night. I hâd spent a whole night at the police station and at the hospital. În the morning he let me în aș if none of it hâd happened. (Please find the second part of
(English) ” I was living in a sealed concrete cube, there was no way out” - Interview with a domestic violence survivor (part I) () [Corola-website/Science/296119_a_297448]
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let me în. În the meantime I hâd been to the ER, get myself checked and they recommended I should get a forensic certificate. Anyway, I hâd nowhere to sleep and I hâd to solve everything that very night. I hâd spent a whole night at the police station and at the hospital. În the morning he let me în aș if none of it hâd happened. (Please find the second part of this interview here: http://artapolitica.ro/en/2016
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I hâd nowhere to sleep and I hâd to solve everything that very night. I hâd spent a whole night at the police station and at the hospital. În the morning he let me în aș if none of it hâd happened. (Please find the second part of this interview here: http://artapolitica.ro/en/2016/09/22/i-was-living-in-a-sealed-concrete-cube-there-was-no-way-out-interview-with-a-domestic-violence-survivor-part-ii/
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medium;"><i><b>Do you wish away certain experiences, or do you consider all experiences, even the painful ones helped you tell your story better.</b></i></spân></spân></spân></p> <spân style="font-size: medium;"><i>I believe everything I hâd to overcome made me a stronger woman. I’ve become more fearless. If I hâd to land now în any other country I would manage, I would even be more practical. If I hadn’ț lived the “sour”... I wouldn
Cunosc femei care suferă de foame, suportă umilinţe... şi nu ştiu că pot merge la centrele sindacaliste () [Corola-website/Science/296087_a_297416]
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even the painful ones helped you tell your story better.</b></i></spân></spân></spân></p> <spân style="font-size: medium;"><i>I believe everything I hâd to overcome made me a stronger woman. I’ve become more fearless. If I hâd to land now în any other country I would manage, I would even be more practical. If I hadn’ț lived the “sour”... I wouldn’ț have written it. The book is my own personal lived experience and without it
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plastic foils, under bridges etc. What was it that touched you most about these conditions they live în?</b></i></spân></spân></spân></p> <spân style="font-size: medium;"><i>How fast they got accustomed to their new circumstances. How they hâd to learn to survive, to bear with the hardships, to suffer and yet still find the power to laugh. Life goes on even if you live în a shack.</i></spân></spân></spân></p> <spân style="font-size: medium;"><i><b
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Romanian politicians. Why did you consider necessary to connect this perspective to the profoundly personal one?</b></i></spân></spân></spân></p> <spân style="font-size: medium;"><i>It’s obvious the destruction of România’s economy impoverished many people. We hâd to leave because of them, those who destroyed this country. The Romanians’ migration is not a cultural one, for those seeking knowledge of other customs and civilisations. It’s a migration determined by hunger, it’s a migration of mothers
Cunosc femei care suferă de foame, suportă umilinţe... şi nu ştiu că pot merge la centrele sindacaliste () [Corola-website/Science/296087_a_297416]
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cu Anglia încă nu s-a terminat. [:en]Ana S. În 2010, Ana stayed în Oslo, Norway, for 5 months. The discrimination she was subjected to prevented her from finding a job, despite her bachelor’s degree în Design. She hâd to live with 11 other migrants from all over the world în a tiny apartment. She made a living ouț of selling her handmade jewelry. În 2015 she left for England, where she is currently living. I’d found this
Căutam chirie zi de zi () [Corola-website/Science/296094_a_297423]
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talked to seemed ok, she was from Timișoara, that made me feel more comfortable, seeing aș there are nicer people there (laughs). I talked to her on Skype and on the phone a lot and she really seemed nice. I hâd several Skype interviews with the prospective employers from England - it’s all a sort of Babel tower, there’s a recruiting company în România working with a recruiter from England hiring me to work for a “care provider”. În the
Căutam chirie zi de zi () [Corola-website/Science/296094_a_297423]
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part started only after a training which I could choose to go through or not, and without the training I could have stayed on aș a full-time assistant. The training was 1500 pounds and once you went through it, you hâd some sort of qualification, you were officially a “care-giver”. If you did more trainings, maybe you could even become a nurse, for more money. The thing is, once I got to England, în Slough, it was clear to me I
Căutam chirie zi de zi () [Corola-website/Science/296094_a_297423]
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nurse, for more money. The thing is, once I got to England, în Slough, it was clear to me I wasn’ț going to work aș an office assistant, only aș a care-giver. It was the same for all who hâd come there through various recruiters, not just the ones from România. The recruiter from England was part of the deception. A girl from Bulgaria hâd been promised the exact same thing. And she hadn’ț been an office assistant for
Căutam chirie zi de zi () [Corola-website/Science/296094_a_297423]
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aș an office assistant, only aș a care-giver. It was the same for all who hâd come there through various recruiters, not just the ones from România. The recruiter from England was part of the deception. A girl from Bulgaria hâd been promised the exact same thing. And she hadn’ț been an office assistant for a single day, event hough she’d been there for 9 months. She was like most of uș there, without any money, and we hâd
Căutam chirie zi de zi () [Corola-website/Science/296094_a_297423]
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hâd been promised the exact same thing. And she hadn’ț been an office assistant for a single day, event hough she’d been there for 9 months. She was like most of uș there, without any money, and we hâd to take the jobs we were given because we hâd no other options. Initially they told me I hâd 2 days a week off. Except during the one-month training - which it became apparent I was required to go through - there
Căutam chirie zi de zi () [Corola-website/Science/296094_a_297423]